Daddy!! As you walk with us……..

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Daddy!!! As you walk with us,

Every day, every moment,

Still holding our hands,

Now not so gentle, now not so delicate,

I take a pause, to reflect over the years gone by,

To revisit some pages from the book of my life,

And in the withering yellow bunch,

Find a sparkling white one that stands out,

Crisp as new, still fragrant, still fresh……..

The page bears a name,

Your name, Daddy!!!

And today, I want to write an ode,

An ode for you, Daddy!!!

Daddy, at the cusp of eighty, at my brother’s house, whom I now call Daddy…..(@2010); in my younger days, some of my friends compared Daddy to the veteran Hindi film actor Balraj Sahni, while some of my girl friends in college and university had a secret crush on him….

Because, even when…….

The subcontinent was brutally partitioned,

And the flow of our immense potential was dammed,

By the cataclysmic, unforgiving events of history;

You confronted the vicious adversities that came our way,

With equanimity, taking the side of dharma and selfless karma,

To transcend the valley of deprivation, misery and pessimism,

And chart a path of honor and pride, responsibility and piety.

Because, even when…..

Lesser mortals burnt in their personal hell of revenge, jealousy and hatred,

Their evil passions fueled by religion, region, language, greed,

Spreading violence, death & destruction-as in the pogrom of Delhi-1984,

You were a beacon of empathy and forgiveness, peace and brotherhood,

Your beatific visage- an aura of grace, spirituality & inner peace,

Having conquered the turmoil, tribulations & failings of our species.

Because, even when….

The fools basked in the limelight of their ephemeral extravagance,

Boosted by a pretentious display of everything fake,

Your muted and humble wisdom,

Simple style, as pristine as a child’s laughter,

With your selfless devotion & empathy towards all,

Stood firm, to be remembered, & cherished, forever.

Because, even when…..

Others got carried away in the transience of material happiness,

Only to grieve its loss, when it’s gone,

Like a shallow desert stream subsumed by the sands,

Your depth was akin to that of an ancient lake,

That absorbs the tremors,

Providing enduring stability to the boat anchored on its shores.

With Mummy, in the beautiful abode they built for us @ 1985- clicked by me

Daddy, when the day comes,

And my heartbeat falters and life ebbs,

As is bound to happen one day,

The gasps of my last breath will have your name etched on them,

& when my body is relieved of this unsustainable burden of life,

My soul will reach out to you, to guide me to moksha,

As only you can take me there…….

When this treacherous soul is liberated from the cycle of evil and temptation,

I will celebrate the freedom thus attained, only with you…….

An ode to a saint. My father.

Daddy, as a dashing bridegroom on 3 rd March, 1960; his sisters compared him to the Maharajah of Patiala…

36 responses to “Daddy!! As you walk with us……..”

  1. radhakrishnanpisharody Avatar
    radhakrishnanpisharody

    Beautifully penned ode to father by a doting son.
    Your father indeed was very handsome 😊

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      A feedback from a dear friend, after a long time, is indeed heartening for me…. As far d appreciation goes ….gratitude….Daddy was indeed handsome….

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  2. farheez Avatar

    A lifetime, a generation, some history, and oodles of love, what better tribute to a doting father….
    Be he alive or with the heavenly Father….
    Memories and feelings keep alive the love, teachings and feelings of our Father…

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      That I had to wake u up from a long slumber to get a feedback was a heartbreaking experience, specially when I value ur suggestions a lot dear brother….but as d saying goes, it is better late than never…u pick up d nuances delicately….grateful dear brother….also remembering Baba this day….

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  3. jajaborfreesoul Avatar
    jajaborfreesoul

    Sir never ever read such a mesmerizing ode to one’s father. No mere mortal can instill such feeling in his ward to pen such timeless thoughts. All dads are special in their own way. But never read such a rich and touching tribute. My profound respect for the son who could pen such tribute to his dad. Uncle even in his eighties was extremely handsome.

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Pleasantly surprised to get your feedback; u know how much I value it- and your profuse praise is really overwhelming for me; grateful brother!!!!! Always look forward to your comments with the eagerness of a child!!! Thanks, once again…..

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  4. NAGENDER SINGH YADAV Avatar

    Heart touching ❤️

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      First of all thanks for following my blog!!!!!! Moreover, to see ur feedback is most gratifying for me; hope to see more comments on articles which appear in future in Musings of a Delhi Boy………

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  5. Pushp Avatar

    APS .. this is a masterpiece. Your best ! Uncle ji must be smiling from Heavens !

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      I have only one word in response to ur feedback “Overwhelmed”……I have always treated u as family and my younger brother since we first met in October-November-1990; Time flies- relationships endure; God bless u brother!!! Now & always…….

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  6. yaserhusain Avatar
    yaserhusain

    Beautiful Sir! So touching indeed, full of emotions, Our thoughts and Prayers for your Beloved ‘Daddy’!

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Dear Yaser, you have been one of my most consistent readers ever since we met years ago; your positive feedback has held me in good stead; God bless you son!!!!!!!

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  7. rozyrajeev Avatar
    rozyrajeev

    That great.
    Many congrats.
    Regards.

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Dear Sir, it is indeed a pleasant surprise to see a feedback from you in the comments section of the blog; Thanks a lot please; Hope that you read my blogs in the future too!!!!

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  8. Abrar Sheriff M Avatar
    Abrar Sheriff M

    Wonderful Tribute those words have really conveyed your feelings. Greatness of the Man who was a beacon to you. Those old photos make for a Vivid flashback. Tugs at the heart strings.

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Always look forward to your feedback brother; motivates me to hone my skills further and try to write better; grateful for d appreciation……..

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  9. Sushovan Avatar
    Sushovan

    A touching tribute .

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Pleasantly surprised to get a feedback from you! grateful bro…..thanks for liking the blog…….

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  10. Sushovan Avatar
    Sushovan

    Touching tribute

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  11. sanjaymadaneok Avatar
    sanjaymadaneok

    Beautiful written by a wonderful son!

    Your dad does look very handsome👍

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      You never skip to read any of my blogs!!!! grateful for that brother….and yes, thanks for d appreciation…….

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  12. Sanjay Madan Avatar
    Sanjay Madan

    Beautiful written by a wonderful son!

    Your dad does look very handsome👍

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  13. rana3287 Avatar
    rana3287

    Very nicely written. It seems you were very close to your Father.

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Pleasantly surprised to get a feedback from you………..Thanks for your appreciation brother; do keep reading my blogs….means a lot to me……….

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  14. hiturajeev Avatar
    hiturajeev

    You too are a wonderful amd a loving son, raised by a warm and loving father…I certainly recall he did look like Balraj Sahni….God bless you with his love always!

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Thanks brother for your sweet as custard feedback…..i am indeed grateful that u could take time from ur busy schedule to go through the creation; Daddy treated u as his own son and u have been family since more than four decades now……..love you all…… …

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  15. dharmila Avatar
    dharmila

    What a tribute. Super writing. True love for your parent, nicely conveyed.

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Madam, you r one of my most consistent readers and I always look forward to ur feedback in the comments box……..Overwhelmed with ur appreciation!!!! Gratitude!!!!!!!

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  16. Rajiv Dutta Avatar
    Rajiv Dutta

    A perfect tribute to a perfect father! The use of the words, the never ending flow of powdery emotions, all say a lot about the association one had with his Daddy.
    An ode worth reading many a times !

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Whenever the master’s feedback drops into the comments box, my childlike happiness knows no bounds- thanks for being there Sir, and guiding me on my literary travels!!!!!

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  17. Sandeep Mathur Avatar
    Sandeep Mathur

    A very heart-warming tribute to your father
    🙏🙏

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      You are one of my most consistent readers, and any feedback from you is indeed a morale booster for me- grateful to u brother for standing by me in this ongoing literary journey…..

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  18. mmalhotra77 Avatar
    mmalhotra77

    A lovely and touching tribute to our dearest Daddy! He was the coolest Daddy ever. He’s a great role model for us all.

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      Thanks sweetheart for your honey and custard feedback!!!! Yes, he was the coolest Daddy ever; and the best role model for all of us, and the society at large……….

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  19. farheez Avatar

    Very well expressed. This is one time I am short of words.

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    1. APS Malhotra Avatar

      A technically sound poet gives a review of my creation after a long time- honored for that; and the appreciation has indeed overwhelmed me and put me short of words!!!!!!

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